RESPect, LISTENing, UNDERSTANDing, ACCEPTance, in that order each will open the door to the next, will result and sustain a healthy and successful relationship with all the proper attributes ...IMO I recently have discovered that I have a healthy dose of ADD which has opened up my mind and understanding of my make up. Some find people with ADD intolerable and some very attractive and some both at the same time, but I promise you that you will never get bored with one. I am what some may call hard headed but the right person will call it determined, it is all in the perception of the viewer. I enjoy and cherish my aloneness and recharge my battery when I am an introvert but when the battery is charged up I become an extravert with over and abundance of energy and fun. Though I am perfectly fine on my own but much rather be with the right companion. Much more when we connect.