A real men is honest . take care of his kids . gives up his seat for a women . tells the worst truth instead of his best lie . listens . reads . is well - groomed . is secure enough to have here stand in the limelight . smiles . is romantic . minds his manners . holds doors open for other . is trustworthy . is on-time . treats service personal with the respect they are due . loves and respect his parents . makes mistake . doesn't hold mistakes others make against them. understand that he does not know everything . makes a conscious effort to learn something new every day . loves hard . says what he feels .reads this without feeling offended . The real men stay faithful they don't have time to look for another woman because they're too busy looking for new ways to love their own .