I’m not here by choice but because of circumstances outside of my control which I find myself on this site. I do not want to wine and dine and go out to the movies. I am looking for a special relationship with someone mature with whom I can connect physically, mentally and sexually. I want someone who loves to laugh and knows how to have a good time. Someone who is independent, drama free & non judgmental. Life doesn’t always go according to your plans. Sometimes you have to compromise & adjust. Someone who is understanding, open minded with an easy going attitude. Someone who knows what is at the tip of their fingers before they lose it with regret. Someone who has endured difficult times and has a positive attitude towards life. Someone who believes in the vows “till death do us apart” “through health & sickness” and understands what it really means. Someone who has overcome personal challenges and is energetic, inspiring, motivating, exciting, stimulating & encouraging