Want to know the secret to a happy life???? No - it's not "love".... ( or money, or sex, religion, etc, etc) well, not exactly.. If and when we chat or talk in person, I will share with you my philosophy, in this regards. It is EXTREMELY simple ! OK - a little about me... I will try and break it down as efficiently as I can.... First, the "not-so-interesting" stuff... I am an educated professional, with my own house, non-alcoholic, non drug user, and fairly fit. ( these are the "interview questions" that I get asked, so thought to get it out of the way now). I am very independent, open minded, and self-sufficient, and most often happy, and content. Looking for someone with the capacity to understand and appreciate these attributes. Looking for a genuine long term relationship. I am neither looking to be a sugar daddy, nor looking for a 'trophy date'. Someone who understands the undeniable philosophy of happiness !