Please don’t waste my time. Looking for long term relationship.

I am an honest person with a good personality. Family oriented. I am an independent person. I like to travel, have fun and explore. I am looking for a man who is understanding, honest, smart, responsible, funny and has a good personality. NO LYERS PLEASE or NARCISSISTS. I like someone who is stable and knows what direction to go in life. Confused MEN who don’t know what they want PLEASE DONT BOTHER WRITING. I dont believe in having an open relationship because there is no such thing of having an open relationship. It’s very simple YES or NO - no time to play. Be honest to yourself, know what you want, dont CONTROL, and be confident with your decision making to be able to move forward in life. Being self centered is not a positive aspect. IF YOU ARE YOUNGER THEN 44 DON’T WRITE I will not answer. MY PREFERRED AGE IS 44 to 58.