How to encourage a woman to fall in love with you... Unfortunately, this will not keep the wackos and users away from me making it difficult to find the diamond in the rough..That's my problem here... 1. Make her notice you. She'll know your name in the future, and greet you in public, and so on. 2. Take your time. If she gives you her number, perfect, but don't beg for it. 3. Compliment her when she does something smart or kind. 4.Make the effort to get to know her. 5. Gain her trust. 6. Be friends with her family. If you like what you read, let me know...