Perspective is an interesting tool. It is the factor by which we arive at certain decisions. This is particularly so when it comes to the physical, and later the emotional aspects of our lives. At this point and to this narrative, you may come to form the opinion that the author habitually over-analyses matters. Alternatively, you may bring yourself to the conclusion that the author is evasive in his endeavour to avoid the said topic (successfully or otherwise, it's your call). For example, I may deem myself to be particularly charming and attractive to the opposite sex. You may,in time, come to the conclusion that I'm both as uninteresting and unattractive as a turnip. The point however is that regardless of what my opinion is of myself, that you should and will go on to form your own opinion in due course, if you should be so willing. Therefore, I anticipate that whomever deems whatever qualities they think they have extracted from this narrative to be to their liking, will in due course make the effort to contact me. Looking For: This is more difficult than knowing this weeks lottery numbers. What I think I would like, and what I may come to love are not necessarily congruent. I'd like to believe that I am sufficiently open-minded to discover something new, both in terms of a partner and what I may unearth from within myself as a result of this other. I am aware however that I do tend to look for someone that is capable of supplementing my existence. That is to say I prefer someone on par. Not above me, not below me (relative to the relationship). There is no definitive factor. It could be anything physical or emotional.