Someone with whom there is a chemistry, respect, kindness, integrity, shared values, interests. Having the warmth in a relationship is a must. Having a growth mindset, grit, common sense, curiosity, desire to learn, not he afraid to make mistakes, feel secure is more important than sense of humor. Emotional intelligence is more important than status in life. The fun and adventures, the cooking and travel, the music and movies, the hiking and … would naturally flow…