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Male
Divorced
Madison, WI
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In their own words

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I’m a man who is always striving to improve myself, but making time for fun and laughter. I'm a firm believer in Gary Chapman’s “The Five Love Languages.” Myself, I respond best to words of affirmation, physical touch and am willing to give the same along with quality time and acts of kindness. What’s yours? I believe in honesty, loyalty, romance and affection. I am someone who is self aware, self reflective, self motivated and has empathy. I am a great listener and will make sure you feel safe, seen, heard, understood, and loved. I’m prepared to give 100% to a LTR & I expect 100% back. I also expect honesty/loyalty & a continuous work effort to always put your best foot forward. To treat each other like we are still dating even after 10+ yrs together. I am passionate about spending time and being present with the person I love from snuggling to walking nature trails or farmers markets. If I love the person, then everyday is an adventure I look forward to. If she chooses to have alone time, I can be happy going for a bicycle ride or just clean the house. For my partner-- I want more than just a pretty face. I want a woman who is beautiful on the inside as well. The woman for me is independent, motivated and faces challenges head on. She shares my commitment to health and fitness. She takes good care of herself. She is stable in both emotions and career. She works hard but makes sure to leave enough time to enjoy life. She possesses both intelligence and an open heart.

Appearance
Hair
Black
Eyes
Brown
Physique
Athletic
Height
5'  8"   (173 cm)
Family Roots
American
Race
White / Caucasian
My Lifestyle
Smoking
Non-Smoker
Drinking
Never
Has Kids
Yes
Wants Kids
No
Religion
Jewish
Education
Master's Degree
Occupation
Retired
Income
I'll tell you later
Exercise
Always
What languages do you speak?
English
Favorite Music
I'll tell you later
Favorites
Favorite Actors
Tom Hanks
Favorite Restaurants
Anything Healthy Organic.
Favorite TV Dramas
“Severance” “Cobra Kai”
Interests
Business Finance
I’m a retired accountant/accounting educator and love helping people learn personal finance, investments, and retirement planning.
Camping
Love traveling and am looking for companion
Cooking
I enjoy cooking for that special person in my life.
Exercise
I take care of myself because feeling good is looking good and looking good is feeling good.
Food
I eat healthy organic food cause you only get one trip around the sun. If you take care of your body, it takes care of you.
Gambling
I don’t gamble.
Gardening
I actually want to get more into gardening to learn how to be fully self sustainable.
Movies
Movie nights are great and even better when snuggling
Personality
Adventurousness Average
Affectionateness Very Doting
Trustingness Average
Confidence Very Confident
Independence Very Independent
Mood Carefree, Chill
Romance Very Romantic
Sociability Very Extroverted
Thought Process Very Analytical
Tolerance Average
Lifestyle
Dress Average
Energy Very High
Go Party Rarely
Religion Small Part
Neatness Somewhat Neat
Punctuality Always Early
Spending Somewhat Thrifty
Work Ethic Driven
Insights
What is the most important lesson that you've learned?
Retrospectively, I most thankful for. I am thankful for the bumpy roads and heavy winds throughout my life for I have learned from the past and it has made me who I am today. I am thankful for the ability to say "All is well, I am self sufficient and I have all I need". That I turned those "scars into Stars" , that I was the "Victor and never the VictIM" and that "the rest of my life will be the best of my life". I’m ready to build a lasting, loving relationship based on trust, mutual interests, kindness and affection. I just need to find the right girl. Could you be her?
What is the most important thing in a relationship?
There is no greater gift each person in a relationship can give to each other than feeling safe, seen, heard, understood, and loved. More importantly, understanding that providing the respect of offering the ministry of presence (means my phone is off and no one and nothing is more important than giving you 100% of my attention) weighs more than the words please, thank you, and I love you.
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