We all need to chill and relax a little. Life however complicated, yet still is that simple. No need to go looking for happiness, fulfillment and satisfaction. Attributes you are looking in other, find them within yourself first. If you aren’t happy, content and satisfied, no one ever will give you those things. Meeting someone, dating someone, finding a suitable partner is an addition to what we already have. Basically you double up and share between the two. If you don’t have it, if you don’t bring it, meeting a new person is not a come up or a gain. Asking others not to waste your time, learn not to waste it for yourself first.