I dont waste time in general. I know where I am in life and what I'm looking for. I know my standards and what kind of a person I am attracted to. I'm very easy to talk to, have great sense of humour and always up for a laugh, yet; I appreciate the complex matters in life and always value a serious discussion. Please be kind enough to be a refelction of your self rather than a shadow of what you want to be. As for my name seems its getting lost in translation, its Arin and this name in the profile is my work brand so wherever or in whatever context, in any media, you see xenitharian that's undoubtedly me. No it doesn't have a specific meaning it is a combination of two words that have sentimental meaning for me. As for what I look for, I believe it is quite obviouse a connection at the very least, the rest can be built-up overtime. As long as there is attraction we can move forward and see if we'll have sparks, flames and fireworks later or we'll just be another bang in the distance.