If small opportunities fly by ....means Big opportunities was meant to come by... i know we shouldn't focus on appearances because beauty unmistakably fades with time ,and what really matters is what we carry inside, inner beauty never fades .....In a romantic relationship, a motivator is something that drives a person to stay common and invested in that relationship .Motivators in love life can vary from person to person and can be different at different stages of the relationship. One motivator in love life for me is the feeling of being loved and appreciated by one's partner. When I feel valued and cherished by my partner, I tend to have a strong desire to maintain that relationship and work through any challenges that may arise. Another motivator in love life is shared goals and aspirations....wanna tell me a bit about your goals ?? Seeking a normal person.....If yr in the ages of 42 to 49 i would love to hear from you ,preferably with no kids...........Sincerely Victoria