Not your cup of tea - But maybe your favorite mug

I’m not here to blend in. I’m the guy who prefers handwritten notes to emojis, slow dances in the kitchen to club nights, and eye contact that lingers just long enough to say, “I see you.” I build things—literal things, like CNC prototypes and emotionally resonant rituals. I believe in dignity, clarity, and the kind of chemistry that makes silence feel like a shared language. I’m a former software director turned small business owner, now designing tools and systems that honor both function and feeling. I mentor badminton players with geometry and intuition, and I design products that whisper rather than shout. If you like your romance old-fashioned but your conversations electric, we might just click. You: emotionally intelligent, grounded, playful. You know who you are, and you’re not afraid to be seen. Bonus points if you love the smell of sawdust, the thrill of a well-placed metaphor, or the idea of building something beautiful together—whether it’s a life, a lamp, or a legacy. Pass on by if you’re looking for someone typical. Click LIKE if you want someone who’ll make you tea but also ask why you drink it.