i am on the quiet side, an introvert. More of a listener than a talker. Down to earth, peaceful nature, calm, easy going, patient, kind, caring, good hearted, empathetic, understanding, family oriented person. It would be nice to be completely smitten by someone but I don’t fall very easily. If it’s meant to be it will be if not that’s ok too. I am 51, I don’t have any grandiose, la la land expectations. I’ve seen and experienced life for what it is, at this point anything more is a bonus, and would be a pleasant surprise. Some things that are a turn off - if you're rude, swear profusely, too pushy, overbearing, aggressive, hot headed (ok so i've pretty much excluded most of the men on this planet, lol). Definitely must be single or officially divorced; no one separated or married.