I don’t care what people say about them selves on their bio. The only way to get to know a person is to give them a chance in person. So you want to take a chance or not, it’s your choice. Oh I don’t have a membership so if you want to talk you have to send the first message. Thank you and have a wonderful day. Oh by the way I will talk to you in a text just to say hi, but if you really like me then we would have to exchange phone numbers and actually talk on the phone. I am old school and like to have a conversation person to person.